{"id":654,"date":"2017-12-17T20:55:23","date_gmt":"2017-12-17T20:55:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=654"},"modified":"2017-12-17T20:55:23","modified_gmt":"2017-12-17T20:55:23","slug":"evlat-dedigin-gecici-misafirlerin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=654","title":{"rendered":"Evlat dedi\u011fin ge\u00e7ici misafirlerin&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hep ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n s&ouml;k&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n&uuml; g&ouml;r&uuml;yoruz ilk &ouml;nce. Kimimiz ay\u0131pl\u0131yor ama s&ouml;k&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n var demiyoruz. Kimimiz yan\u0131na gidip sessizce s&ouml;yleyip dikmesine yard\u0131m ediyoruz. Kimimiz g&ouml;r&uuml;yoruz ama g&ouml;rmemezlikten geliyoruz. Kimimiz herkesin i&ccedil;inde ba\u011f\u0131ra ba\u011f\u0131ra s&ouml;yl&uuml;yoruz.Sonra da yard\u0131ma ko\u015fuyoruz.<br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda kendimizi d&uuml;zeltiyoruz bir ba\u015fkas\u0131nda.<br \/>\nBu bazen &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuz olabiliyor. Kendi ge&ccedil;mi\u015finden yola &ccedil;\u0131k\u0131yoruz &ccedil;o\u011fu zaman<br \/>\nNeye hasret kald\u0131ysam &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuza fazlas\u0131yla verip ,b\u0131kmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyoruz.<br \/>\nNeleri ba\u015faramad\u0131ysak, o ba\u015fars\u0131n diye didinip duruyoruz.<br \/>\nNerde k\u0131s\u0131tland\u0131ysak orada &ouml;zg&uuml;rle\u015ftiriyoruz &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131!<br \/>\nNe kadar a\u011flad\u0131ysak o kadar g&uuml;ls&uuml;n istiyoruz. &Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bizi a\u011flatanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nBa\u015faramad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z geliyor akl\u0131m\u0131za, &uuml;z&uuml;l&uuml;yoruz.<br \/>\nGaliba hepimiz, kendimizi &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zda tamaml\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nBazen k\u0131z\u0131p, k&uuml;s&uuml;yoruz, o d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;p ak\u0131llans\u0131n diye de\u011fil, biz dinlenip tekrar g&uuml;&ccedil; toplamak i&ccedil;in zaman yarat\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nYesin istiyoruz yemedi\u011fimiz kadar,giysin istiyoruz giyemedi\u011fimiz kadar.<br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda o yedik&ccedil;e biz doyuyoruz, o giydik&ccedil;e biz mutlu oluyoruz.<br \/>\nGaliba hepimiz, kendimizi &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zda tamaml\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nGe&ccedil;mi\u015ften geldi\u011fimiz i&ccedil;in biliyoruz neler ya\u015fanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, korkuyoruz. Onlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelmeden neler olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yoruz, ben zaman\u0131nda &ouml;nlem almad\u0131m, onlar als\u0131n istiyoruz.<br \/>\nSakl\u0131yoruz hatalar\u0131n\u0131, eksiklerini, bilenlere mah&ccedil;up olmamak i&ccedil;in.<br \/>\nArada bir &ccedil;ok k\u0131z\u0131yoruz ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 notlara<br \/>\n100 puanl\u0131k yeti\u015ftirirken 70 puanla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermesine dayanam\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nBir taraftan onlar\u0131 d&uuml;zeltmeye &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken,&nbsp; bir taraftan biz ayn\u0131 kal\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\n&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; bizler onlar\u0131 kendimiz zannediyoruz. Daha kolay geliyor insana, &ccedil;ocu\u011funu yenilemek.<br \/>\nKendimize hak g&ouml;rm&uuml;yoruz de\u011fi\u015fimi, &ccedil;ocuklar varken ne gerek var diyerek.<br \/>\nAsl\u0131nda her anne baba, kendilerinden bir par&ccedil;a getirirler d&uuml;nyaya, kendilerini tamamlamak i&ccedil;in.<br \/>\nKendilerine adayamad\u0131klar\u0131 hayat\u0131 onlara adamak i&ccedil;in.<br \/>\n<strong>&Ccedil;ok verdik&ccedil;e k&ouml;le, az verdik&ccedil;e zalim oluyorlar &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131na.<\/strong><br \/>\nSonra yalvar\u0131yoruz Allah&rsquo;a :- Allah&rsquo;\u0131m &ccedil;ocu\u011fumdan &ouml;nce benim can\u0131m\u0131 al, onun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bana g&ouml;sterme diye.<br \/>\n&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; ben gidersem o zaten, ben olarak ya\u015fayacak, ama o giderse ben diye bir \u015fey olmayacak.<br \/>\n&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; her evlat annenin, baban\u0131n bir par&ccedil;as\u0131d\u0131r, diyoruz.<br \/>\nEvlendiriyoruz mutlu olsunlar diye yine de tam inanam\u0131yoruz, emanet ettiklerimize.<br \/>\n&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; kendimizi emanet ediyoruz, ele<br \/>\nBak\u0131yoruz ki kopmak istiyorlar bizden, inanm\u0131yoruz.<br \/>\nBa\u015fkas\u0131yla b&uuml;t&uuml;nle\u015fmek istiyorlar, hevestir diyoruz.<br \/>\nSonra \u0131srar ediyorlar.<br \/>\nBir ger&ccedil;ek g&uuml;mb&uuml;r g&uuml;mb&uuml;r geliyor, d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;ncelerimize.<br \/>\nNe evlat ne de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 sana ait de\u011fil, sen de\u011fil.<br \/>\nSenden bir tane var<br \/>\nBir tane do\u011fdun<br \/>\nBir tane ya\u015f\u0131yorsun<br \/>\nEvlat dedi\u011fin her &ccedil;ocuk<br \/>\nGe&ccedil;ici misafirlerin<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u015fk\u0131m Kap\u0131\u015fmak&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hep ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n s&ouml;k&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n&uuml; g&ouml;r&uuml;yoruz ilk &ouml;nce. Kimimiz ay\u0131pl\u0131yor ama s&ouml;k&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n var demiyoruz. Kimimiz yan\u0131na gidip sessizce s&ouml;yleyip dikmesine yard\u0131m ediyoruz. 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