\nBir-\u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f aras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerini en fazla zorlayan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan
\nbiri kaba kuvvet e\u011filimidir. Bu ya\u015f grubunda \u00e7ocuklar duygular\u0131n\u0131,
\nd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini, isteklerini k\u0131sacas\u0131 i\u00e7lerinden ge\u00e7en her \u015feyi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bedensel
\ntepkilerle anlat\u0131rlar. Bu durumun yukar\u0131da iki temel tetikleyicisi vard\u0131r:
\nbirincisi duygular\u0131 yo\u011fun ya\u015famalar\u0131<\/b>, ikincisi ise bu yo\u011fun i\u00e7sel
\ndurumlar\u0131 ifade edecek yeterli dil becerisine sahip olmamalar\u0131. <\/b><\/p>\n
Bir-\u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f aras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n istedikleri olmay\u0131nca yay gibi gerildiklerini ve
\nkafas\u0131n\u0131 geriye do\u011fru atarak t\u00fcm bedeniyle kas\u0131lma tepkileri verdi\u011fini
\ng\u00f6rebiliriz. Ayr\u0131ca, akran\u0131na \u201cmerhaba\u201d demeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak veya onun elindeki
\noyunca\u011f\u0131 istemek gibi basit sebeplerle arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n kafas\u0131na vurabildi\u011fini ya da
\nsize olan sevgisini g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in kolunuzu \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve hatta yorulup
\nbunald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendi kafas\u0131n\u0131 yere veya yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kenarlar\u0131na vurdu\u011funu
\ng\u00f6rebilirsiniz. \u0130\u015fte t\u00fcm bu kontrols\u00fcz fiziksel tepkileri bu ya\u015f grubuna \u00f6zg\u00fc
\nkaba kuvvet e\u011filimi olarak de\u011ferlendirebiliriz.<\/p>\n
Sinir sistemi geli\u015fimini hen\u00fcz tamamlamam\u0131\u015f, \u00f6\u011frenme tecr\u00fcbesi \u00e7ok s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olan,
\nkendini ifade edici dil becerisi yetersiz 1-3 ya\u015f aras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in bu
\ntepkiler asl\u0131nda normal kabul edilmelidir. En uyumlu ve yumu\u015fak huylu \u00e7ocu\u011fun
\nbile 1-3 ya\u015f aras\u0131 d\u00f6nemde en az\u0131ndan birka\u00e7 kez kendini durup dururken yere
\natt\u0131\u011f\u0131, ebeveynini \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da arkada\u015f\u0131na vurdu\u011fu olabilir. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu
\ndavran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7erli geli\u015fimsel sebepleri oldu\u011funu bilmek kaba kuvveti ho\u015f
\ng\u00f6rmek ya da do\u011frusunu \u00f6\u011fretmemek anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7ocuklar davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n
\nkabul edilir ya da edilemez, do\u011fru ya da yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu sizin y\u00f6nlendirmeniz
\nolmadan bilemez ve \u00f6\u011frenemezler. Ebeveyn olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz kendisine ya da bir
\nba\u015fkas\u0131na vurdu\u011funda, \u0131s\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, tekme att\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f
\noldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011fretme sorumlulu\u011fu sizdedir. <\/p>\n
Elbette ki bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu \u00e7ocuklara \u00f6\u011fretmek i\u00e7in farkl\u0131
\ny\u00f6ntemler vard\u0131r. Bu y\u00f6ntemler \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimsel d\u00fczeyine ve miza\u00e7 yap\u0131s\u0131na
\ng\u00f6re de\u011ferlendirilmeli, \u00e7ocuk \u00f6zelinde en do\u011fru yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ne oldu\u011fu
\nbelirlenmelidir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri akranlar\u0131na g\u00f6re daha yo\u011fun olan ve haf\u0131za
\nbecerisi hen\u00fcz o kadar geli\u015fmemi\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funuz size vurdu\u011funda, yanl\u0131\u015f davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n
\nbir sonucu oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in onu kendinizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p bir s\u00fcre
\nbeklemesini istemeniz hi\u00e7 i\u015fe yaramayabilir. Ama olaylar\u0131n s\u0131ralamas\u0131n\u0131 ve
\nneden-sonu\u00e7 ili\u015fkisini anlayacak kadar haf\u0131zaya sahip, d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri konusunda daha
\nkontroll\u00fc bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan ba\u015fka bir aile i\u00e7in bu y\u00f6ntem m\u00fckemmel sonu\u00e7lar
\ndo\u011furabilir. <\/p>\n
Bu konuda tavsiye \u00fcretirken her ebeveynin kendi \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tecr\u00fcbeleri
\n\u00f6zel olarak de\u011ferlendirmek ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun bireysel \u00f6zelliklerini hesaba katmak
\ngerekir. \u00d6zetle, \u00e7ocuklarda erken ya\u015flarda kaba kuvvet e\u011filimi normal olsa bile
\nebeveynin \u00e7ocu\u011fa kendini kontrol etmeyi \u00f6\u011fretmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bir-\u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f aras\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerini en fazla zorlayan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan biri kaba kuvvet e\u011filimidir. Bu ya\u015f grubunda \u00e7ocuklar duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini, isteklerini […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":477,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[354,476,550,361,369,355,553,376,447,412,446,494,382,368,387,471,377,441,470,556,444,445,557,383,453,385,386,448,443,501,380,461,402],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anne-baba","category-anne-baba-egitimi","category-anne-cocuk","category-anne-babalara-oneriler","category-arkadaslik-iliskileri","category-baba-cocuk","category-cocuk-egitimi-cocuk","category-cocuk-gelisimi","category-cocuk-psikolojisi","category-cocuk-ve-okul","category-cocukla-iletisim","category-cocuklarda-davranis-problemleri","category-cocuklarda-duygusal-problemler","category-cocuklarda-kardes-iliskileri","category-cocuklarda-kardes-problemleri","category-cocuklarda-kiskanclik","category-cocuklarda-kufur","category-cocuklarda-oyun","category-cocuklarda-psikososyal-sorunlar","category-cocuklarda-ruh-sagligi","category-cocuklarda-sosyal-beceriler","category-cocukta-disiplin","category-cocukta-iletisim-guclukleri","category-cocukta-karsit-olma-karsi-gelme","category-cocukta-kavramlar-para-esya-vb","category-cocukta-ofke-siddet-saldirganlik","category-cocukta-ofke-kontrolu","category-cocukta-ozguven-problemleri","category-cocukta-sosyal-beceriler","category-cocukta-uyum-sorunlari-egitim","category-cocukta-uyum-sorunlari","category-kural-koymak","category-kural-ve-sinir-koyma"],"yoast_head":"\r\n