{"id":217,"date":"2008-04-09T15:14:06","date_gmt":"2008-04-09T15:14:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=217"},"modified":"2008-04-09T15:14:06","modified_gmt":"2008-04-09T15:14:06","slug":"evinizde-kimin-sozu-geciyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=217","title":{"rendered":"Evinizde kimin s\u00f6z\u00fc ge\u00e7iyor?&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"left\">Dedenin &ouml;n plana &ccedil;\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 <strong>ataerkil<\/strong>, baban\u0131n s&ouml;z sahibi oldu\u011fu <strong>babaerkil<\/strong> ve anne merkezli <strong>anaerkil<\/strong> aileden sonra \u015fimdi de &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n hakim oldu\u011fu <strong>&ccedil;ocukerkil <\/strong>aile tipi ortaya &ccedil;\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">En sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 aile tipinin babaerkil oldu\u011funu belirten psikologlar, &ccedil;ocukerkil ailelerin genellikle tek ya da iki &ccedil;ocuklularda ortaya &ccedil;\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s&ouml;yl&uuml;yor. <\/p>\n<p>Psikolog Fatih Kalk\u0131n&ccedil;, &quot;&Ccedil;ocuk merkezli aileler sa\u011fduyudan uzakt\u0131r. Bu ailelerde yeti\u015fen &ccedil;ocuklar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 oluyor. Evde otorite elinde olan &ccedil;ocukta, ciddi anlamda cinsel kimlik geli\u015fimi olmuyor. Zevkine ve rahat\u0131na d&uuml;\u015fk&uuml;n hale geliyor. E\u011fer anne &ouml;n planda olursa, erkek &ccedil;ocukta erkeksi duygular &ccedil;ok geli\u015fmiyor.&quot; dedi. <\/p>\n<p>&quot;Tektir&quot;, &quot;biriciktir&quot; mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yeti\u015fen &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n bir s&uuml;re sonra ailesine her istedi\u011fini yapt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden psikolog Orhan Keskin ise payla\u015fmay\u0131 sevmeyen bu &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n bencil oldu\u011funu, bl&ouml;f ve \u015fantajla istediklerini &ouml;nce ailelerine, daha sonra da topluma yapt\u0131rmak istediklerini belirtti. <\/p>\n<p>&Ccedil;ocukerkil ailelerde anne ve baban\u0131n kimliklerini net bir \u015fekilde ortaya koymas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade eden psikolog Kalk\u0131n&ccedil;, &ccedil;ocuk merkezli aile olmaktansa anne baba merkezli aile olman\u0131n tercih edilmesi gerekti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131. Kalk\u0131n&ccedil;, belirli &ouml;l&ccedil;&uuml;lerde disiplin kurallar\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, aksi takdirde disiplinsiz yeti\u015fen &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n ilerleyen ya\u015flarda toplumun ba\u015f\u0131na dert oldu\u011funu s&ouml;yledi. Evde otoritenin mutlaka babada olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 &ccedil;izen Kalk\u0131n&ccedil;, &quot;Anne ve baba, bu kimliklerini &ouml;n plana &ccedil;\u0131karmal\u0131 ve &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131na &ouml;yle davranmal\u0131. Evde otorite belli olmal\u0131 ve kesinlikle &ccedil;ocukta olmamal\u0131. M&uuml;mk&uuml;nse babada bulunmal\u0131.&quot; \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu. <\/p>\n<p>Ge&ccedil;mi\u015f y\u0131llarda &ccedil;ocukerkil ailelerin fazla g&ouml;r&uuml;lmemesinde en b&uuml;y&uuml;k etken olarak ailenin kalabal\u0131k olmas\u0131n\u0131 g&ouml;steren psikolog Keskin, d&ouml;rt be\u015f &ccedil;ocuklu ailelerde ister istemez otoritenin babada oldu\u011funu ifade etti. Kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 seminerlerde y&uuml;zde 40-50 oran\u0131nda tek &ccedil;ocuk sahibi insanlar\u0131n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kta oldu\u011funa dikkat &ccedil;eken Keskin, tek &ccedil;ocu\u011fun bir&ccedil;ok y&ouml;nden riskleri bulundu\u011funu kaydetti. Bunlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda &ccedil;ocu\u011fun payla\u015fmay\u0131 &ouml;\u011frenmemesi ve ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131yla beraber oyun oynamada s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 &ccedil;ekmesi geliyor. Bunun sebebinin ailenin &ccedil;ocu\u011funu &ccedil;ok \u015f\u0131martmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Keskin, &quot;&Ccedil;&uuml;nk&uuml; &ouml;zeldir, biriciktir. B&ouml;yle olunca &ccedil;ocuk ister istemez bencil yeti\u015fiyor. Bencil &ccedil;ocuk, ben merkezli olur. Bunlar\u0131 yaparken, evin tek &ccedil;ocu\u011fu oldu\u011funun fark\u0131ndad\u0131r. Aile isteklerine s\u0131n\u0131r koymazsa, bunlar ileride tavizlere d&ouml;n&uuml;\u015f&uuml;r. \u015eantajla isteklerinin kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Mesela, &lsquo;Bu iste\u011fimi yapmazsan\u0131z yemek yemem ya da okula gitmem der. B&ouml;yle olunca aileyi &ccedil;ocuk y&ouml;nlendirir.&quot; dedi. Benzer durumlar\u0131n iki &ccedil;ocuklu ailelerde de g&ouml;zlenebildi\u011fini s&ouml;yleyen Orhan Keskin, ailelerin &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derece serbest b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu durumda da &ccedil;ocu\u011fun bencil yeti\u015fti\u011fini kaydetti. Her iki durumda da toplum ad\u0131na kayg\u0131 verici insan tipleri yeti\u015fti\u011fini belirten Keskin, &quot;Ne diyor aileler, &lsquo;&Ccedil;ocuktur, gen&ccedil;tir. \u0130stedi\u011fi gibi oynas\u0131n, diledi\u011fi gibi davrans\u0131n. Bu defa &ccedil;ocuk, k&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k bir &ouml;zg&uuml;rl&uuml;\u011f&uuml; k\u0131s\u0131tland\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman olaylar patlamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. &Ouml;zellikle gen&ccedil;lik d&ouml;neminde ailesine, &lsquo;evi terk ediyorum diyebiliyor. Bu durumda aile &lsquo;sen gidince biz biteriz gibi s&ouml;zler sarf ederse &ccedil;ocuk bunu da koz olarak kullanmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor.&quot; \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu. Bu tarz davran\u0131\u015flarda &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n belirli ya\u015flara geldi\u011finde sistemden kolayl\u0131kla &ccedil;\u0131kabildi\u011fini ifade eden Keskin, &quot;Aile hatas\u0131n\u0131 anl\u0131yor; ancak hatas\u0131n\u0131 bir anda kesmeye kalk\u0131\u015f\u0131nca da bir&ccedil;ok ar\u0131zalar &ccedil;\u0131k\u0131yor. Bunun i&ccedil;in &uuml;&ccedil; ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren &ouml;nlem almak gerekiyor. &Ccedil;ocuk belirli \u015feyleri &ouml;\u011frenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bunlar\u0131 kontroll&uuml; bir \u015fekilde anlatarak, otoriteyi elden b\u0131rakmadan sevgi dolu bir yakla\u015f\u0131mla b&uuml;y&uuml;tmek gerekiyor.&quot; dedi. <\/p>\n<p>Psikologlar\u0131n s&ouml;zlerine kat\u0131lan Ahmet Ak\u0131n isimli vatanda\u015f, uzun y\u0131llar &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, olunca da adeta &uuml;zerine titrediklerini s&ouml;yl&uuml;yor. Biricik o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131n &uuml;zerine fazla titremenin baba ve anne olarak otoritelerini sarst\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 daha sonraki y\u0131llarda fark ettiklerini belirten Ak\u0131n, \u015fimdilerde &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na &ccedil;are olabilecek &ouml;nlemler almak i&ccedil;in &ccedil;abalad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, ancak bir&ccedil;ok \u015feyin ge&ccedil;ti\u011fini g&ouml;rd&uuml;klerini anlat\u0131yor. Aile bask\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda, &ccedil;ok &ccedil;ocuklu bir ailenin d&ouml;rd&uuml;nc&uuml; &ccedil;ocu\u011fu olarak yeti\u015fti\u011fini aktaran Fatma G&uuml;nay ise \u0130yi niyetini &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bilerek ya da bilmeyerek suistimal etti\u011fini vurgulayarak &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 yaramaz olduklar\u0131 i&ccedil;in insanlar\u0131n rahats\u0131zl\u0131k duydu\u011funu s&ouml;yl&uuml;yor. <\/p>\n<p>Bu &ccedil;ocuklar neler yap\u0131yor? <\/p>\n<p>Zaman zaman okula gitmeye biliyor. <\/p>\n<p>Notlar\u0131 di\u011fer &ouml;\u011frencilere g&ouml;re &ccedil;ok d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;k oluyor. <\/p>\n<p>Madde kullan\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131kl\u0131kla g&ouml;r&uuml;l&uuml;yor. <\/p>\n<p>Arkada\u015f\u0131mda kalaca\u011f\u0131m diye eve u\u011fram\u0131yor. <\/p>\n<p>Farkl\u0131 ortamlara &ccedil;ok rahat tak\u0131labiliyor. <\/p>\n<p>\u0130stedi\u011fi zaman eve ge&ccedil; saatlerde d&ouml;n&uuml;yor. <\/p>\n<p>Anne ve babaya kar\u015f\u0131 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