{"id":110,"date":"2008-03-11T11:36:12","date_gmt":"2008-03-11T11:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=110"},"modified":"2008-03-11T11:36:12","modified_gmt":"2008-03-11T11:36:12","slug":"cocuklarimiza-duygulari-ogretmek-ii-ornek-davranislar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benimyuvam.com.tr\/?p=110","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Duygular\u0131 \u00d6\u011fretmek ( II ) \u00d6rnek Davran\u0131\u015flar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"left\">(L&uuml;tfen &ouml;ncelikle &ldquo;<a href=\"yazilar.asp?id=13&amp;y=83\">&Ccedil;ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Duygular\u0131 &Ouml;\u011fretmek (I)&rdquo;<\/a> makalesini okuyunuz)<\/p>\n<p>Duygular\u0131 isimlendirebilece\u011fimiz veya davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda yatan duygular\u0131 anlayabilece\u011fimiz &ccedil;e\u015fitli &ouml;rnek durumlar:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Durum 1: <\/strong>3 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki &ccedil;ocu\u011funuz odas\u0131nda bir canavar oldu\u011funu ve uyumak istemedi\u011fini s&ouml;yl&uuml;yor. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Genelde otomatik tepkiler nas\u0131l olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Odanda canavar falan yok&rdquo;, &ldquo;Korkacak bir\u015fey yok. Zaten canavar diye bir\u015fey yoktur&rdquo;<br \/>\nB&ouml;yle s&ouml;yledi\u011fimiz zaman &ccedil;ocuk anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder. Halbuki 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki &ccedil;ocuk odas\u0131nda bir canavar\u0131n varoldu\u011fundan emindir. Zihinsel geli\u015fimi \u015fu an somut \u015feyleri alg\u0131lamaya yeterli odu\u011fu i&ccedil;in odan\u0131n i&ccedil;inde g&ouml;rd&uuml;\u011f&uuml; bir g&ouml;lgeyi veya d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki dal par&ccedil;as\u0131n\u0131 bir canavar olarak alg\u0131lam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T&uuml;m bu otomatik tepkiler yerine korku duygular\u0131n\u0131 kabul edip o \u015fekilde davranabiliriz. Burada isimlendirebilece\u011fimiz bir &ccedil;ok duygu olabilir. &ldquo;Demek korkuyorsun&rdquo;, &ldquo;Kendini &ccedil;ok rahats\u0131z hissettin&rdquo;, &ldquo;kendini g&uuml;vende hisetmiyorsun &ouml;yle mi?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Bu &ccedil;ok normal biliyor musun? Senin ya\u015f\u0131ndaki b&uuml;t&uuml;n &ccedil;ocuklar gece korkabilir. Seni rahatlatmak i&ccedil;in ne yapabilirim?&rdquo; Bunun &uuml;zerine &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuz ihtiyac\u0131 olan \u015feyi s&ouml;yleyebilir, kabul edilmi\u015f ve rahatlam\u0131\u015f hisseder. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Durum 2: <\/strong>4 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z yuvadan eve geldi ve dedi ki: &ldquo;Anne ben Ay\u015fe&rsquo;yi hi&ccedil; sevmiyorum&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Genelde otomatik tepki ne olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Yine ne oldu?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Neden? Ay\u015fe &ccedil;ok tatl\u0131 bir k\u0131z&rdquo;, &ldquo;Hay\u0131r asl\u0131nda sen Ay\u015fe&rsquo;yi seviyorsun da bug&uuml;n bir\u015fey oldu galiba&rdquo;, &ldquo;Ay\u015fe asl\u0131nda \u015f&ouml;yle iyi, b&ouml;yle cici..&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>B&ouml;yle \u015feyler s&ouml;yledi\u011fimizde &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuza kar\u015f\u0131 b&uuml;t&uuml;n ileti\u015fim kanallar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015ftan kapatm\u0131\u015f oluruz. Yine ne oldu? dedi\u011fimizde &ldquo;asl\u0131nda kesin sen su&ccedil;lusundur&rdquo; mesaj\u0131n\u0131 veririz. O s\u0131rada &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuzun ihtiyac\u0131 olan \u015fey Ay\u015fe&rsquo;nin asl\u0131nda ne kadar tatl\u0131 ve cici oldu\u011fu de\u011fildir. T&uuml;m ihtiyac\u0131 sadece sonuna kadar dinlenmek ve kabul edilmektir. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T&uuml;m bu otomatik tepkiler yerine aynalama tekni\u011fi ile s&ouml;yledi\u011fi s&ouml;z&uuml; ona geri tekrarlayabiliriz: &ldquo;hmm.. demek Ay\u015fe&rsquo;yi sevmiyorsun?&rdquo; bakal\u0131m arkas\u0131ndan ne gelecek? Bir k\u0131skan&ccedil;l\u0131k m\u0131 yoksa bir k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k duygusu mu? Me\u011fer Ay\u015fe&rsquo;nin pembe etek giymi\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131 ve &ouml;\u011fretmenin onu &ccedil;ok be\u011fenmesini k\u0131skanm\u0131\u015f olan k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bu duygular\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmas\u0131na ve uygun \u015fekilde ifade edebilmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Durum 3:<\/strong> \u0130lkokuldaki &ccedil;ocu\u011funuz eve geldi, &ccedil;antas\u0131n\u0131 duvara f\u0131rlatt\u0131 ve dedi ki: &ldquo;baba s\u0131navdan 2 ald\u0131m, Mehmet 5 ald\u0131, zaten &ouml;\u011fretmen hep ona 5 veriyor&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Genelde otomatik tepkiler:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;O\u011flum sen de bir sonraki s\u0131navdan 5 al\u0131rs\u0131n&rdquo;, &ldquo;Zaten yeteri kadar &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131n&rdquo;, &ldquo;Mehmet &ccedil;ok &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fkan bir &ouml;\u011frenci, sen de &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f, sen de 5 al&rdquo;, &ldquo;olsun, gel ben sana bir dondurma alay\u0131m da ne\u015felen biraz&rdquo;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>B&ouml;yle davranarak olay\u0131n &ccedil;ocu\u011fumuz &uuml;zerinde yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygular\u0131 es ge&ccedil;mi\u015f oluruz. Bu tepkiler zaten &uuml;zg&uuml;n olan &ccedil;ocu\u011funuzun &uuml;z&uuml;nt&uuml;s&uuml;n&uuml; ikiye katlar, bir sonraki s\u0131navda ille de 5 alabilmek i&ccedil;in &uuml;zerinde bask\u0131 olu\u015fur, Mehmet&rsquo;i daha da k\u0131skanmas\u0131na ve bu k\u0131skanman\u0131n k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa d&ouml;n&uuml;\u015fmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu durumda isimlendirebilece\u011finiz pek &ccedil;ok duygu vard\u0131r. &ldquo;Demek 2 ald\u0131n, &ccedil;ok &uuml;zg&uuml;n hissediyor olmal\u0131s\u0131n&rdquo;, &ldquo;Kendini ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z m\u0131 hissettin yavrum?&rdquo;, &ldquo;(ironik de\u011fil ama, uygun bir y&uuml;z ifadesiyle) Biraz da Mehmet&rsquo;i k\u0131skanm\u0131\u015f olabilir misin?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g&ouml;r&uuml;yorum, oysa ben senin bu s\u0131nav i&ccedil;in &ccedil;ok &ccedil;abalad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum&rdquo; diyerek sonuca de\u011fil s&uuml;rece odaklan\u0131p, duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong>Durum 4: <\/strong>&Ccedil;ocu\u011funuz yuvadan eve geldi ve b&uuml;t&uuml;n oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 etrafa f\u0131rlatmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Hatta bir ikisini k\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong>Genelde otomatik tepkiler:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">&ldquo;Ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 san\u0131yorsun b&ouml;yle? oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rma&rdquo;, &ldquo;Yine ne oldu yuvada?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Sana bir daha oyuncak yok&rdquo;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;hmm.. &ccedil;ok k\u0131zm\u0131\u015f g&ouml;r&uuml;n&uuml;yorsun&rdquo;, &ldquo;seni &uuml;zg&uuml;n g&ouml;r&uuml;yorum, sebebini &ouml;\u011frenmemde bir sak\u0131nca var m\u0131?&rdquo;, &ldquo;demek arkada\u015f\u0131na k\u0131zd\u0131n, \u015fu an rahatlamak i&ccedil;in ne yapabilirsin?&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong>Durum 5: <\/strong>(&Ccedil;ok daha minikler i&ccedil;in bir &ouml;rnek) &Ccedil;ocu\u011funuz d&uuml;\u015ft&uuml; ve kafas\u0131n\u0131 sehpaya &ccedil;arpt\u0131, a\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Genelde otomatik tepkiler:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&quot;Ko\u015farsan b&ouml;yle olur i\u015fte&rdquo;, &ldquo;o\u011flum dikkat etsene&rdquo; (bunlar su&ccedil;luluk duygusuna neden olabilir) &ldquo;tamam tamam bir\u015fey olmad\u0131, ac\u0131mad\u0131, a bak ku\u015f u&ccedil;uyor&rdquo; (duygusu yar\u0131m kalabilir)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Evet &ccedil;ok ac\u0131d\u0131&rdquo;, &ldquo;biraz a\u011flay\u0131p rahatlayabilirsin, in\u015fallah biraz sonra ac\u0131s\u0131 ge&ccedil;er&rdquo; B&ouml;yle yakla\u015fmak onun duygusunun yar\u0131m kalmamas\u0131na ve bununla ba\u015fedebilmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Durum 6:<\/strong>\u0130\u011fneden korkan &ccedil;ocu\u011funuza &ldquo;hi&ccedil; ac\u0131mayacak, bebek gibi a\u011flama&rdquo; gibi bir yakla\u015f\u0131m da ona ac\u0131 duygusunun anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verebilir. <\/p>\n<p>Bunun yerine &ldquo;evet ac\u0131yacak ama bu ac\u0131 uzun s&uuml;rmez, senin bununla ba\u015fedebilece\u011fini d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;yorum, ne dersin?&rdquo; gibi bir yakla\u015f\u0131m hem kendisini i\u011fne i&ccedil;in haz\u0131rlamas\u0131 i&ccedil;in, hem de duygusunun anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 i&ccedil;in daha uygun olur. <\/p>\n<p>Durum 7:5 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki b&uuml;y&uuml;k k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z siz karde\u015fine yemek yedirirken &ldquo;anne hep ona yediriyorsun, bana hi&ccedil; yedirmiyorsun&rdquo; diye k&uuml;s&uuml;p bir k&ouml;\u015feye gidip oturdu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Genelde otomatik tepkiler:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;K\u0131z\u0131m bebek gibi davranma&rdquo;, &ldquo;tabi ona yedirece\u011fim, kendi nas\u0131l yesin&rdquo;, &ldquo;art\u0131k abla oldun, hala m\u0131 k\u0131skan\u0131yorsun?&rdquo;, &ldquo;zaten sen karde\u015fini hi&ccedil; &ccedil;ekemezsin&rdquo;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Uygun yakla\u015f\u0131m:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&Ouml;ncelikle karde\u015flerin birbirini k\u0131skanmas\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar do\u011fal ve insani bir duygu oldu\u011funu ve bu duygular\u0131n i&ccedil;inde &ccedil;e\u015fitli avantajlar bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmekte fayda vard\u0131r. &ldquo;Yavrum biraz k\u0131skanm\u0131\u015f olabilir misin acaba? Olabilir, bu &ccedil;ok normal, karde\u015fler birbirini hep k\u0131skan\u0131r. Ben \u015fu an sana yemek yediremem ama bu g&uuml;&ccedil;l&uuml; duyguyla nas\u0131l ba\u015fa &ccedil;\u0131kabilirsin, sana bu konuda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilirim san\u0131yorum. Bu konuda bana ne &ouml;nerebilirsin?&rdquo; diyerek &ccedil;ocu\u011funuzun duygular\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmi\u015f ve tamamen ileti\u015fime a&ccedil;\u0131k bir yakla\u015f\u0131mda bulunabilirsiniz. <\/p>\n<p>&Ouml;zetlemek gerekirse, b&ouml;yle davranarak neyi ama&ccedil;l\u0131yoruz:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) <\/strong>&Ccedil;ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zda duygusal fark\u0131ndal\u0131k olu\u015fturmu\u015f ve psikolojik olarak olgunla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f oluruz.<br \/>\n<strong>2) <\/strong>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla empati duygusu kazanmalar\u0131n\u0131 destekleriz. (empati yapabilmek kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmadan m&uuml;mk&uuml;n de\u011fildir)<br \/>\n<strong>3)<\/strong> Kendilerini iyi ve k&ouml;t&uuml; yanlar\u0131yla kabul etmi\u015f &ouml;zg&uuml;ven sahibi &ccedil;ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmi\u015f oluruz.<br \/>\n<strong>4)<\/strong> Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 anlayabilme ve onlar\u0131 da iyi ve k&ouml;t&uuml; yanlar\u0131yla kabul edebilme, b&ouml;ylelikle sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kurabilme becerilerini geli\u015ftirebiliriz.<br \/>\n<strong>5)<\/strong> Sizleri her zaman her\u015feyi s&ouml;yleyebilece\u011fi, onu t&uuml;m yanlar\u0131yla kabul edebilece\u011finiz ebeveynler olarak g&ouml;rmesine f\u0131rsat tan\u0131m\u0131\u015f oluruz.<br \/>\n<strong>6) <\/strong>Problemler b&uuml;y&uuml;meden halledilmesini sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f oluruz.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\n(Bu b&ouml;l&uuml;m&uuml; okumadan &ouml;nce l&uuml;tfen &ldquo;<a 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